Why should you get to know RubensMuse?
Because I am a spirited, bright, mischievous, independent lass who still enjoys an adventure and has a glint in her eye. I am sharp, instinctive, cheeky & exuberantly contradictory with a liking for the absurd & ridiculous. Resourceful & experience rich with a self awareness that means I can laugh at myself, I have a humour that can see the funny side of most things. I'm open, insightful & intuitive a good listener not minding silence, time to reflect, but can hold my own in a discussion too. I will probably make you laugh and may even show you my den.
Not materialistic, but eating outside in the garden on warm sunny evenings is indeed a good thing. As are warm sunny mornings, the lido after work, cold crisp mornings when you can see your breath; leaning into the wind with your coat open, a stroll or bike ride along on the South Bank, finding streets you've never been up, a good film or book, looking at things from a different angle or place, turning things on their heads, weekend breaks, winter holidays somewhere warm, cooking & eating with & for friends, puerile, smutty somewhat crude & rather filthy humour & laughing till you go all squirmy.
I often say hello to strangers and smile at passers by, I like the sunshine & I like it when it snows, I like riding my bike in the rain – if I am not on my way to work. I like wine white if it feels like summer & red if it feels like winter. I like being by water, a lido, a river, a lake, loch, the sea or even the bath & going to new places close to home and far away. I like being nude, even when it’s cold. & especially for swimming. I like tapirs- when they swim you can see their teeth, naked mole rats- you can always see their teeth, sifaka lemurs cos they can only skip sideways & nahrwals are good too.
Don’t like arrogance, lack of compassion, prejudice, marzipan, bluebottles (the flys not the glass) strong fish (taste not weight lifting) the smell of a tripe factory, chewing gum under tables or on seats, privatized utilities...
She describes her ideal match thus:
Open to find out on that one. But, you should generous of spirit and strong in soul with an amused sense of the absurdities of life. Someone to roll around and laugh with, to go on weekends away - holidays and adventures with, someone to spar and banter with, to mooch around and chortle with. An equal partner someone to learn with. Someone to curl up on the couch with, to spoon on cold nights with, and to touch, tease and tumble with, someone to explore possibilities with… Someone to share exquisite silences with, to develop a language with that is understood in the most fleeting glances or the faintest facial change, someone who smells right and that's not about your choice in aftershave...